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91 Deep Questions to Ask a Girl

If you’re looking for ways to know a girl better, these get-to-know-you questions can help you dig further and reveal more about her personality.

These questions help keep your conversation going (here’s an 11-step process on keep a conversation going). And atthe same time, allow you to discover more about her.

With these questions, you’ll learn about her life’s story and how it has shaped her in the present, what her tastes are, and how she views other people, among other things.

You can use these more personal questions to start up new conversations instead of revisiting the same old conversations again and again.

New topics will lead to learning how someone really feels about something, and this small talk can ultimately lead to a deep and meaningful conversation that can lead to a healthy relationship.

  1. If you were given three things to make you happy, what would these be?
  2. How would you rank the following in importance: family, career, love life?
  3. Which would you prefer: having a baby without a partner or a partner without a baby?
  4. What was your experience about being “mansplained,” and what did you do about it?
  5. Who was your favorite cartoon character when you were a kid?
  6. Do you think God is real, and why?
  7. Do you believe in giving people second chances, and why?
  8. How would you describe your first crush?
  9. Do you ever keep a journal? (Sidebar: If you are interested in journaling, here are 7 of our favorites.)
  10. Do you think people fall in love because the right person has arrived, or because the time is right (regardless of whom the person is that they fall in love with)?
  11. How do you feel about the #MeToo movement?
  12. What do you look for in a relationship?
  13. What is your idea of a perfect date?
  14. What legacy do you want people to remember about you after you’re gone?
  15. Have you ever asked a guy out on a date?
  16. What was the most important lesson you’ve learned from your past relationship?
  17. What book influenced you the most?
  18. What life-changing event have you experienced?
  19. What’s a deal-breaker for you in a relationship?
  20. Are you a morning or a night person?
  21. How important is trust in a relationship?
  22. How do you feel about infidelity?
  23. Do you believe that the day will arrive when humans will be replaced by machines in almost all aspects of life?
  24. What do you think is humankind’s greatest invention?
  25. Do you think that humans are doing more harm than good to the planet?
  26. What is your take on telepathy?
  27. What is your favorite workout routine?  (Here are 51 options)
  28. Would you rather be called vain or insecure?
  29. What important lesson did a close relative teach you?
  30. What part of your body do you find attractive?
  31. Which would you choose to be: law-abiding citizen or rule breaker, and why?
  32. What is your ideal vacation?
  33. What superpowers did you wish you had when you were a kid?
  34. Are you a mountain or a beach person?
  35. What mythical animal do you resonate with, and why?
  36. Which member of your family do you feel closest to, and why?
  37. Who do you consider your best friend in your workplace?
  38. What three adjectives would describe you?
  39. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you choose?
  40. What are you passionate about in life?
  41. What quality in a person do you fall in love with?
  42. Have you had your heart broken before?
  43. What is your take on astrology?
  44. What is your life’s soundtrack? Or what type of music inspires you?
  45. When was the last time you spoke with a classmate from high school?
  46. Are you left- or right-handed, and would you want to switch?
  47. What subject were you good at in high school?
  48. What was the most memorable experience you had in elementary school?
  49. Do you find it difficult to admit that you are wrong, and why?
  50. Do you get excited or scared when meeting new people?
  51. What is your secret hobby that others would consider weird?
  52. How do you cope with stressful situations?
  53. Is there anything that you would like to change about yourself?
  54. What musical instrument do you know how to play?
  55. Who or what inspires you?
  56. Which would you prefer in a romantic partner: a dreamer or an achiever?
  57. What is your favorite part of a house, and why?
  58. Who is the fictional character who closely resembles you in terms of attitude?
  59. When you were a kid, what did you say you wanted to be when you grew up?
  60. What was the title of the first movie you watched in a movie theater?
  61. When was the last time you slept outdoors?
  62. What is something that you are proud of about yourself?
  63. What song do you often sing in the shower?
  64. What do you feel is the right age for people to get married?
  65. What would be your super villain name and your powers?
  66. What three non-electric or non-automatic items would you take on a deserted island?
  67. If “hello” were to be replaced by another word as a greeting, what word would that be?
  68. What is the weirdest thing that your family does together?
  69. What was the most embarrassing thing that you’ve done for a friend?
  70. What task would you really fail at doing?
  71. What is your definition of a “perfect life”?
  72. What would be the title of the movie showing your life from birth up to present?
  73. What fashion piece would you invent for women?
  74. What is the single most important thing people should do for the planet?
  75. How do you define evil, and do you believe that a person can be evil?
  76. What do you think are the two things that prevent people from realizing their dreams?
  77. Would you lay down your life for someone?
  78. What word or term do you wish to know the meaning of?
  79. What makes you nostalgic?
  80. Do you believe that each of us has a soul mate?
  81. How would you live your remaining days if you found out you had only a week to live?
  82. Do you listen to other people’s advice, or do you prefer figuring things out yourself?
  83. What is your favorite motivational quote?
  84. Imagine that you are tasked to re-design society – what changes would you make?
  85. What’s the perfect day for you?
  86. Would you wait for the sun to rise or for it to set, and why?
  87. If you were born in another era, when would that period in history be and why?
  88. Have you made someone cry?
  89. What is the most astonishing act that a person can do for you?
  90. What is more important: being true to yourself regardless of who gets hurt or considering the consequences of your actions on other people’s lives?
  91. If you die tonight, would you pass away fulfilled or unsatisfied with life?


Downloadable and Printable List of Friendship Questions

Here is a downloadable and printable jpg/pdf list of Questions To Ask Friends (right click the image and select Save Image As…):

via:  Mantelligence

via: Mantelligence

5 Questions You Haven’t Asked Your Best Friends

via:  Pexels / Andrea Piacquadio

via: Pexels / Andrea Piacquadio

Some friendships can be somewhat confusing to anyone outside of them but deeply bonded at a fundamental level. Even when you’ve known each other forever, there are always more best friend questions that you can ask.

Here are 5 questions to ask your best peers:

17. Who Are Your Top Three Real-life heroes?

Looking up to the people we aspire to be can be a great way to help us stay on track in life. They can motivate us into doing something better.

18. When Was The Last Time You Completely Lost Yourself In Something?

Every once in a while, some things seem to grab ahold of us. These things also change our lives for the better. In this case, we have to be thankful.

19. Would You Save Me During A Zombie Apocalypse?

It’s time to enter a world of sci-fi and fantasy. It’s also time to discuss important matters regarding the impending doom called the zombie apocalypse.

20. When We First Met, Did You Think That I Was An Introvert Or An Extrovert?

As people say, “First impressions last.” But some people are shy at first, but in reality, they are as extroverted as a golden retriever. Does the first impression still stand in this case?

21. What Is The Worst Thing That Happened To You Which Left You And Someone In Awkward Silence?

Awkward silences can drive anyone crazy. Everyone dreads the moment they have to endure an awkward silence, especially among friends and loved ones.

via:  Pexels / Liza Summer

via: Pexels / Liza Summer

How to ask someone out over text

With the emergence of the digital era, people opt to ask each other out over text or chat as compared to physically asking their crushes out (since it’s super intimidating to do it the traditional way).

You might think it’s super easy-peasy to just text someone if they wanna go out with you or not but people have become sensitive and observant when it comes to the tone of your text messages. You must not come off as cocky or weird. There must be sincerity and humor that will interest them enough to go out with you.

Here are some cute texts and pick up lines you can send in order to subtly show your intention to ask someone out:

1. Hey Handsome/Beautiful, wanna Netflix and chill with me?

It might seem like you’re just asking them to watch a movie with you and have a snack but beware of its double meaning in the dating world which translates to hooking up!

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Suggested read: 70 Things to say to your Best Friends

2. Hello, your profile picture looks so familiar. I think I met you in my dreams. Would you like to meet in real life?

This will surely make them giggle at the cockiness of the line.

3. I never believe that someone can fall in love at second sight. Care to prove me wrong during dinner tonight?

Perfect for asking out someone you literally just met. Humor and wittiness will be by your side.

4. I’m in the mood for good food and good company. Care to join me?

You’ll sound so aesthetic with this one that they might just be persuaded to say yes at your bravado.

5. Can you be the Romeo to my Juliet over lunch or dinner on Friday after work?

Another creative and flowery use of words to ask someone out to be your date. You can easily change lunch to prom or something like that.

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6. My friends tell me I’m such a darling to be with, would you like to test that theory over lunch tomorrow?

With this one, you’re going to be saying that your friends vouch for how awesome you are so make sure it’s a bit true since your crush can easily ask them behind your back!

7. I love it when guys call me Señorita, can you be my Señorito for the Prom?

This is yet another very creative way to ask someone out. You might even earn points for your sense of humor!

8. I was having a bad day but then I saw you online, care to turn my frown upside down at the movies and some ice cream afterwards?

How can anyone say no to movies and ice cream, right?

9. I’ve been missing you all day, where have you been, Good Lookin’?

Telling someone that you miss them is another way of saying, “come pick me up!” or “let’s hang out!”

10. I’m kinda hungry, wanna have some burgers and fries with me? Pick you up in 10?

You’d be surprised at how some people would immediately accept your offer, depending on your timing and charms!

In need of more pick-up lines to make people fall in love with you or find you cute and interesting? Check out our article with tons of great Pick Up Lines!

Best Friend Tag Questions

Best Friend Tag consists of asking and answering q

Best Friend Tag consists of asking and answering questions about your friendship. After you both answer, you reveal whether the answers are correct. If you wish, only one of you needs to answer the question. You can pick ten to fifteen of the following questions for a short session of best friend tag, or more if you wish. Some of the questions may end up taking a rather long time to answer, and some can be answered quickly. Enjoy!

  1. Does your best friend prefer a dress or skirt?
  2. Which would your best friend order, fried or grilled?
  3. Who is your best friend’s favorite actor/actress?
  4. Would your best friend rather wear long sleeves or short?
  5. Which type of movie does your best friend like best – comedy, horror, romance, or action?
  6. What annoying trait (if any) does your best friend have?
  7. Does your best friend take any medication(s)?
  8. Has your best friend had any surgeries?
  9. Does your best friend prefer rock or country?
  10. Does your best friend have a nickname? What is it?
  11. Does your best friend have piercings, tattoos, or both?
  12. Does your best friend have a credit card?
  13. Would your best friend rather spend or save?
  14. What concerts has your best friend attended?
  15. What one gift would your best friend want for their birthday?
  16. What does your best friend consider their greatest achievement?
  17. What is your best friend not very good at?
  18. What size shoe does your best friend wear?
  19. Does your best friend have a scar, and, if so, how did they get it?
  20. Has your best friend ever had surgery? What for?
  21. What is your best friend’s favorite animal/pet?
  22. What table or card game does your best friend like most?
  23. What one word describes your best friend?
  24. When and how did you two meet each other?
  25. What is the best time you ever spent together?
  26. Is there any expression or phrase your best friend says often?
  27. Has your best friend ever won anything? What?
  28. When and where was the last time your two hung out?
  29. Do I eat anything weird?
  30. Where would we choose to go on vacation together?
  31. Can your best friend skip rope? Hula hoop?
  32. What is under your best friend’s bed?
  33. Who was the last person your best friend kissed?
  34. Does your best friend collect anything?
  35. What was the best vacation your best friend ever took?
  36. What was the last movie your best friend saw?
  37. What favorite inside joke do you and your best friend share?
  38. Which parent is your best friend most similar to?
  39. Does your best friend believe aliens exist? Ghosts?
  40. What is one dream your best friend would like fulfilled?

Conversation Starters

Whether you’re at a party talking to someone you’ve just met or spent time with friends you haven’t seen in awhile, coming up with a good conversation starter that isn’t just boring small talk can be a struggle. When you begin a discussion with someone, you want it to be interesting, insightful, and entertaining.


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